In the week following the bankruptcy of our adoption agency, after people picked themselves up off the floor from the heartbreak and disappointment, voices started to surface with the words “yes we can”. The families were not ready to accept that a bankruptcy had to mean the end of the road for their adoptions. At that point no one who was involved was committing to helping us, ours was a unique situation and things did not look good.
Keeping this in mind it makes me VERY happy today to finally be typing these words - YES WE DID. Yippi!! After what felt like a long summer there was a creditors' meeting today for the Imagine Adoption families and our vote passed with a majority to allow our adoption agency to be restructured. I want to send a great BIG thank you out to everyone who worked hard to help make this happen (and I mean hard...people have been working around the clock for our families), all of the people who signed the petition etc, etc...
I am proud of the families affected by the bankruptcy and how they did not accept "no" as an option. I am proud of how people rallied as a group and with the support of their communities to get the ear of our government. It is interesting how sometimes valuable life lessons come out of negative situations; maybe that is the Yin/Yang balance of life. From this experience I really think that I have learned the importance of not giving up on something you believe in. Even if things had turned out differently today I would hope that years from now our families could look back and feel proud that they followed their hearts and tried to fight for what they felt was right. We are not “out of the woods” yet, international adoption is uncertain no matter what, but then again so is life. One thing is for sure however, we certainly stand a much better chance now to complete our families, to strengthening international adoption in Canada, and most importantly to bring children home to the loving families they deserve.
So life lesson learned - if you believe in something don't give up!
"I have not failed 700 times. I have not failed once. I have succeeded in proving that those 700 ways will not work. When I have eliminated the ways that will not work, I will find the way that will work."
Thomas Edison